“But porn is such fun!” said a handsome gay man in his 40s, “I just can’t find a partner to enjoy it with.” Sure porn is fun. It hits the pleasure circuits of the brain mimicking nature’s number one priority – reproduction, even if we’re not looking to become a parent. This article called “Why do I find porn more exciting than a partner?” from Your Brain On Porn website explains why porn users may experience more difficulty finding an actual partner with whom to develop a loving relationship.

In the six years since Gary Wilson first wrote on this theme, the science has moved forward a long way. The literature now includes the following…